Perhaps you are in a place in your life where flirting with your spouse seems odd and uncomfortable but it’s in those moments that you should put extra effort into flirting. For the sake of this post I’d like to clarify that we are not speaking on seducing our spouses, although that may be fun.
No, what we are talking about is letting our spouse know that we still love him. You should let your husband know that you still want him. You should let your husband know that you still find him attractive and that you still want to spend the rest of your life with him. After all, you would want to be treated the same way.
You’ve been through a lot with your spouse over the years. There have been times where you’ve had communication issues, family matters that needed to resolved, perhaps even tragic events such as deaths that ya’ll have battled through together. There may have been times where you got so bad that you picked up an object and threw it at him. Maybe after your baby was born you slowly shut him out as you focused your attention towards the needs of your new little loved one. In the midst of life’s ups and downs he’s been there with you and you should let him know that you want him to stay there with you. Forever.
Think back to the time that you were dating, about how you smiled when you knew he was coming over. Think about the way you could talk to him and touch him for hours, about how you imagined waking up next to him. Remember how you used to be concerned when you thought he might see you without your makeup on?
A lot has changed since then.
It’s not all your fault either. And it’s not all bad.
You’ve grown up, so has he.
Still, you desire to know that he loves you and he desires to know that you love him. Remember how you used to laugh with each other? That was before the finances became a burden, wasn’t it?
Flirting with your spouse lets him know that deep down inside you remember what it was like. Flirting with your spouse lets him know that even though life has sent some challenging days your way that you still want to grow old with him. Let him know that.
Easy Ways To Flirt With Your Spouse
Don’t worry if you think you are out of practice, here are some simple ways to flirt with your spouse that won’t feel unnatural at all.
- Run your fingers through his hair
- Kiss him
- Let him know that you think he looks good
- Rub his leg when you sit next to him
- Put the devices down for the night
- Put your makeup on with him in mind
- Fix his favorite dinner
- Compliment him in front of others
- Hold his hand
- Leave him a message on the bathroom mirror